Communication is Key (and No, We Don’t Mean Whispering Sweet Nothings)

Before you even think about approaching Mr. Single-Ready-to-Mingle, sit down with your partner and open a can of honest communication. Talk about your fantasies, boundaries, and what you both hope to get out of this experience. Are you looking for pure fun? Emotional connection? Free donuts? Make sure you’re both on the same page, or you might just end up on different chapters of a romantic thriller.

Establish Boundaries (Or the “Are We Doing This Bit?”)

Once you’ve laid out your thoughts, it’s time to establish some ground rules. How do you feel about intimacy with this new addition? Will there be kissing? Touching? Or is it all about the spotlight? Some couples prefer to keep things light and playful, while others might want to set limits to ensure no hearts are unexpectedly broken. Whatever the case may be, setting boundaries can turn a potentially awkward moment into a delightful romp.

The Audition (Because It’s Not Just About Fitting in Tights)

Now comes the fun part: finding your third! Whether you’re scouting at parties, browsing dating apps, or introductions through friends, make sure the potential candidate is someone who fits well with both of you. Remember, the chemistry has to be there. Feel free to screen them with a light-hearted ‘audition’ — maybe a few flirty texts to gauge their sense of humor and spontaneity. If they can’t keep up with your witty banter, they might not be a fit for this escapade.

Pre-game Jitters (And We Don’t Mean Beer)

As the big day approaches, expect some pre-threesome butterflies (and not just the sexy kind). It’s only natural! Ensure you are relaxed and comfortable with your partner, set the mood with some romantic lighting or your favorite playlist, and remind yourselves why you’re doing this. It’s about exploring together and deepening your connection. Oh, and maybe add a little extra lube to your shopping list; you can never be too prepared!

The Big Day (Cue Dramatic Music)

When it’s time for the main event, remind yourself that it’s all about the fun and exploration. Welcome your guest with open arms (and maybe a cheeky glass of wine). Keep the conversations flowing to ease tension — a laughter-infused ambiance can work wonders! Be attentive to each other’s feelings; check in with your partner and the third wheel. If someone seems to be feeling a bit left out or uncomfortable, a quick verbal adjustment can help steer the evening back on course.

Giving the Woman an Extra Flavour

Keeping in mind that the main idea is to spoil the woman, here are a few hints for an extra effect:

• Sensual Massage: Before diving into the main event, treat the woman to a sensual massage. Use scented oils or lotions to enhance the experience and help her relax. Focus on her erogenous zones to build anticipation and arousal.
• Oral Pleasure: Take turns pleasuring the woman orally. Experiment with different techniques and sensations, such as light flicks of the tongue or gentle suction. Pay attention to her reactions and adjust your moves accordingly.
• Toys and Accessories: Incorporate sex toys and accessories into the mix to add an extra layer of excitement. Vibrators, dildos, and feather ticklers can provide unique sensations and help the woman reach new heights of pleasure.
• Sensory Play: Experiment with sensory play to heighten the woman’s arousal. Use blindfolds, ice cubes, or warm wax to create different sensations on her skin. The element of surprise can be incredibly thrilling and lead to intense orgasms.

Adventurous Positions to Try:

Here is a list of positions you might want to include in your “todo list”

• The Triangle: In this position, the woman lies on her back, while one man penetrates her vaginally. The second man then straddles the woman’s face, allowing her to perform oral sex on him. This position allows for deep penetration and simultaneous oral pleasure for both the woman and one of the men.
• The Spit Roast: One man penetrates the woman from behind while she performs oral sex on the other man. This position allows for deep thrusting and intense oral stimulation, making it a favorite among many threesome enthusiasts.
• The Eiffel Tower: This standing position involves one man penetrating the woman from behind while she performs oral sex on the other man, who is kneeling in front of her. This position allows for a unique and visually stimulating experience for all involved.
• The 69 with a Twist: One man lies on his back while the woman straddles his face, allowing for mutual oral stimulation. The second man then penetrates the woman from behind. This position allows for deep penetration and simultaneous oral pleasure for both the woman and one of the men.
• The Double Penetration Delight: In this position, the woman lies on her back or belly, on top of one of the men. While one man penetrates her vaginally,  the other man penetrates her anally. This position allows for simultaneous double penetration and intense stimulation for the woman. Some women might prefer a double vaginal penetration and others a double anal penetration.
• The Standing Double Penetration: This standing position involves one man penetrating the woman from the front while the other man penetrates her from behind. The woman can wrap her legs around the waist of the man in front for support. This position allows for a unique and visually stimulating experience, as well as double penetration.
• The Double Attention Cowgirl: The woman straddles one man in a cowgirl position, allowing for deep vaginal penetration. The second man then positions himself in front of the woman, allowing her to perform oral sex on him. This position allows for double attention from the men and simultaneous oral and vaginal stimulation for the woman.
• The Double Attention Doggy Style: The woman gets on her hands and knees, while one man penetrates her vaginally or anally from behind. The second man then positions himself in front of the woman’s face, allowing her to perform oral sex on him. This position allows for deep penetration, oral stimulation, and double attention from the men.
• The Seesaw: The woman lies on her back, with her head hanging off the edge of the bed. One man stands at the edge of the bed, allowing the woman to perform oral sex on him. The second man then penetrates the woman vaginally or anally in a missionary position. This position allows for double penetration and double attention from the men.

It’s Not Over Yet! (Aftercare is Actually a Thing)

After the fireworks have sizzled and you’ve all conquered the bedroom Olympics, don’t let the moment fizzle out. Take the time to unwind together. Cuddle, share some sweet nothings, or perhaps indulge in some snacks while you reminisce about the adventure you just shared. It’s essential to engage in aftercare, a term that’s frequently overlooked but is vital for processing the experience and ensuring everyone feels valued and cherished.

Post-Threesome Chat (Revisiting the Playbook)

Finally, once the glorious escapade is a checked box on your adventure list, get back to the drawing board! Grab a drink, sit down, and have an open discussion. Talk about what you loved, what could have been different, and how it felt for each of you. You’d be surprised at what an enlightening experience this could lead to for your relationship moving forward. And who knows? The thrill of your newfound confidence might just lead to some spontaneous bedroom fun for two!

To Conclude: Embrace the Adventure

Embarking on a threesome with a single man can be an exciting journey, full of potential joys and discoveries. Just remember that with the right communication, boundaries, and a touch of humor, you and your partner can make this experience as satisfying as a full pizza after a long day. So, go forth and explore! Adventures await, and who knows? You might just discover a new favorite way to connect with each other — and with a little extra flavor!